Today I would like to discuss the fourth and final leadership principle in the last chapter of The Magic of Thinking Big by David Schwartz. I find these principles to be very helpful and practical in my personal season of life – but also for the season we’re in as a nation. We need to develop as leaders to come out of this pandemic with more strength than we had before because the challenges will be that much bigger!
Principle 4: Take time out to confer with yourself and tap your supreme thinking power.
Many of us, myself included, have the problem of crowding our minds with busy schedules and distractions. If we’re always jumping from one thing to the next or allowing (or inviting?) screens and noise to fill our eyes and ears, then we never have time to think. Perhaps we believe that thinking is a waste of time. Or perhaps we are subconsciously afraid of our own thoughts and to feel alone in our minds. However, I think that many people simply haven’t been taught or encouraged to have a habit of intentionally stepping into solitude to think and meditate.
Without spending time in thought, we become increasingly shallower and lack stability and firmness of purpose. We need to step away and think through big life decisions, consider our identity and purpose, and even to draw small(er) conclusions for work and relationships.
My experience today:
Before writing this today, I decided to spend some time thinking and meditating – in order to practice what I was about to preach. BUT I WASTED some of that precious time by being distracted by something on my phone. I recognize that I need to break away from the distractions in order to be successful in this habit!
Advice from Dr. Schwartz
David Schwartz provides very helpful advice as he supports his claim that “successful leaders tap their superpowers through being alone.” And he challenges us by saying that, “You can, too!”
He reminds us that the great spiritual leaders – “Jesus, Buddha, Confucius, Mohammad, Gandhi” – spent much of their time alone in solitude. There is also the example that many of the evil masterminds of the last century spent time in prison before enacting their destructive plans (Hitler, Lenin, Stalin, Marx). These examples, and many others, demonstrate to us that we have a powerful tool at our disposal (our mind) – but we must tap into it more often in order to reap the benefits it can provide.
Okay! I get it. But HOW?
(glad you asked – here are some ideas)
- Schwartz says to “resolve now to set aside some time each day (at least thirty minutes) to be completely by yourself.”
- This could be directed – with a specific topic or problem in mind.
- Or it could be undirected – and you simply allow your mind go where it wishes and you chase ideas to their conclusion.
- This could be one block of time or split between different times – say the beginning and end of the work day.
- It would be beneficial to journal your ideas and conclusions.
- Take a solitude day or weekend once a quarter (or year).
- I found great benefit in removing distractions and being in solitude for an entire day on a few occasions. I had a plan for the time and resolved to make it productive – and it was great!
- Meditation and Self-affirmation
- These are practices I am stepping into more recently.
- Too much to be said here – so I will provide more in a near future post.
- Is this a practice that you would benefit from? Will you start today?
- If you have practiced “solitude for the mind” before, please share your ideas and tips on the topic.
Reference: Schwartz, David. “How to Think Like a Leader.” The Magic of Thinking Big. Touchstone, pp. 275-302.